Confidence is Building

Well, for a while, Anne had seemed afraid to stand on her own. She's been pulling up plenty, but never wanting to let go. If you'd hold her up & then let go of her, she'd have this frantic look on her face wondering what on Earth we were doing. But, in the last couple weeks, she's been getting more confident. She's let go a few times and those brief moments led to PLENTY of applause from all of us. I'm sure the next few weeks she'll be working on it more & more & getting more and more confident. It's neat to see her working on a milestone, but at the same time, it will make her seem like less of a little baby when she takes off walking. Hmm. Yes, being the fifth vs. the first, I see myself enjoying the moments of still having her be my Sweet Pea that moves like a baby.

Jacob's 1st Day of School (08/20/10)

He's ready to go!

Looking might grown up in this one!

Jacob and his first day at 4-year-old preschool...wow. He's a load of fun. He wasn't sure he wanted to switch schools this year, but we thought it would be good for him to settle in to where he'll be for the next several years. Now he gets to see his big brothers on occasion and is meeting some children he may know for a long time. One of the things that really got him excited, though, was seeing the toys that are in the new classroom. So far, the pirate ship and an army plane are at the top of the list. He's once again making friends easily and having a lot of fun. He says he would like to go every day! Now that's got to mean something because typically, Jacob is my guy who pretty much doesn't want to leave the house for much of anything. He really likes being at home and just playing. He's had stages where we call him "passionate," (i.e. very vocal when he's upset to say the least). But, he's mellowed a lot in my opinion and he is probably the most content of the children as far as occupying himself and having fun with individual play. He makes friends easily and is very kind and thoughtful to others. It's really neat to see him off playing with Playmobil or Legos and hearing the conversations and creative imagination he has in his pretend world. I love it. I really think he reminds me of his Uncle Ben as child in that he's very happy at home with Mom, he likes how Mom cooks things for him, and he wants things done a certain way. Some favorite foods: chocolate chip cookies, bacon, sausage, apples, broccoli, "butter sandwiches" (aka plain old buttered bread, folded in half, NO CRUST). His love for his family is very obvious and he DEFINITELY has a special place in his heart for his Sweet Pea, Anne. One on one conversation with Jacob is hard to beat. I love hearing his thoughts, and he has plenty of them. I know I've said it before, but I do think he's in a tough spot in our family - two big brothers that pretty much get to do all the same things, and then two little sisters who obviously have a different dynamic with being girls; and he's right in the middle. I think he handles it pretty well!

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A great article. Very true. I hope I don't need a "shaking" like this EVER! I also read a quote today that is somewhat related to keeping priorities in order and understanding who's in charge:
‎'Hold everything in your hands lightly. Otherwise it hurts when God pries them open.'
-Corrie Ten Boom

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Super Ladybug!

Today Leah has on her ladybug costume that she wore for Halloween. She came into the room and said, "Mom, can a ladybug be a superhero?" I knew for sure, a ladybug can definitely be a superhero!

Little Blue Eyes

I love getting a few of Anne now and then since she's often the easiest one to "convince" to let me take her pictures. I sure love her eyes! The first and last are probably my favorites.

First Day Pics 2010

Ok, so these are kind of in reverse order since I uploaded them in order - they get flipped. Oh well...

The start of a good day for Nathaniel.

Leyton is ready!

These handsome boys sure are growing!

And a near perfect one. So many great smiles. Anne just didn't want to be moved around by anyone any more.

1st Day of School: 1st Grade, 8/19/10

Leyton & Nathaniel started school today. Quite a new adventure as they are in separate classes this year. It will be interesting to see their growth and changes with this experience. I love having them together, but I do think there will be some benefits for them to allow each of their strengths to come out a bit differently. They complement each other well, and they get along great. I think Nathaniel may have been a little nervous today, but he had a great day as I knew he would. I am proud of him because I think it was a little bit more new to him as he started with a new teacher. Leyton has the same teacher they had last year for kindergarten.

The interesting thing about Nathaniel is that I think often times he is the one that looks to Leyton for some guidance or help with decision making. For example, sometimes Nathaniel will decide on his own to play something, choose a color of something, etc., but then there are several times when he'll want to know what Leyton is doing and go from there. Leyton is very much like Patrick in that he's very laid back in choosing things and will pretty much be indifferent with a lot of decisions. Example: getting dressed. Nathaniel will want certain socks or shirt. Leyton is just happy if someone else gets it for him - "Whatever, Mom." So I see this trait with Nathaniel as somewhat of a security zone for him, to have that familiarity with what he's used to, with what Leyton might be doing and want to do the same. Even more interesting is that looking at this "comfort zone" factor, it's actually Nathaniel that seems to be the social guy. Whenever we talked to parents even early last year, they seemed to usually mention that the boys were very nice, but also mention that they had lots to say about Nathaniel. Sometimes it was sweet in that it was the girls' families; nice that we have a number of very good and nice families at school. He always got a shy little grin about him.

And my Leyton. Like I said, a roll with the punches guy. Unless he's tired and/or in a growth spurt that exhausts him, he's pretty low key and laid back. Nothing phases him and frankly, a lot of things come easy to him. He's typically willing to help out, but will use the "in a minute" answer when he's into something else. Just more of the laid back thing, though...i.e. well, you know, I am laying on the couch right now. Hee, hee. He is a very sweet and loving boy.

I feel blessed that they are both very sweet and caring older brothers to all their siblings. I think we expect a lot of them, but I also think they do a great job of being nice young boys. I enjoy where they are in life, but I don't look forward to any first days of school coming too quickly. I'm sure it can be a time to reflect on one year to the next, and I don't want to let the time fly too quickly.

Have a great year, boys! (And tune in tomorrow for Jacob's first day!)